Parent-to-parent: Normal feelings

Having a new baby is supposed to be a time of joy and optimism. But many parents feel overwhelmed and depressed -- even when they and their newborn infant are healthy.

How well you deal with such feelings depends on how you're handling...

your emotions
fatigue and other common problems of early parenthood

Neither mothers nor fathers should go through this experience alone. Seeking help from family, friends or professionals is a good way to deal with the difficulties you face as you adjust to life with your new baby. Learn more about postpartum ...

Sibling rivalry

Sibling rivalry often starts early and is a normal part of family relationships. Here are a few ways to immediately address the jealousy of older brothers or sisters:

Bring a gift to the older siblings when the mother and newborn come home from the hospital.
Spend some time with each child each day. This special attention by both the mother and father individually can quickly reduce the intensity of sibling rivalry.
Involve older siblings in providing care for the new baby as their age and maturity allow.

For more tips, see our section on older brothers and sisters.