Try to identify the things in life that cause you stress and see if you can invent ways to manage those situations. If you must drive in rush hour traffic, can you listen to a relaxation tape? Keep people around you who encourage and support you. If you've recently been diagnosed with heart problems, managing all your new health concerns may feel overwhelming. Make a list of essentials and tape it to the refrigerator.
Some ways to cope with stress:
Avoid it. Don't drive in rush hour. Sidestep hassles. Avoid situations that make you feel anxious, competitive or emotionally drained.
Schedule things you enjoy. Visit with friends, watch sports, read on the front porch or go to a concert.
Take a break. If you're stuck in a stressful situation, take a few minutes alone to sit, breathe and consider. What must be done now? Things will look clearer in a few minutes.
Clear your mind. Concentrate on a peaceful, serene place and go there in your mind.
Pray or meditate.
Find help. Talk to family members, friends, your health care team, clergy, a therapist, a support group and look for community resources.
Breathe. Deep, slow breaths will help relax you.
Stretch. Move around. Shrug. Point your toes. This will help you relax.
Eat well and exercise. As you implement a healthier lifestyle, you may notice that it's easier for you to cope with stress, too.
Listen to relaxation music or your favorite music.
